Ugandan South Africa-based businesswoman Zari Hassan has written a heartwarming message to her fans asking them not to rely on anyone for their happiness and self-worth.
The mother of three took to her Instagram page to remind her fans that refusing to be bullied in silence and owning their story and loving themselves was the bravest thing they would ever do. She went on to point out that they should not allow other people to define their lives.
“Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life, but define yourself. Don’t rely on someone else for your happiness and self-worth. You & only you can be responsible for that,” read part of her post.
Zari went further to stress out that beautiful people were the ones who had known defeat, suffering, struggle and loss but one way or another found their way back to the top. She added that since it was the month of love she was sending her love and light as there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
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I'm so grateful for my beautiful life. A lovely family, friends, my business & ofcourse for you my followers. I wake up every new day embracing each blessing from God, for without him I'm nothing. Owning our story and loving ourselves through the process of living is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do. Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself. Don’t rely on someone else for your happiness and self-worth. You & only you can be responsible for that. If you can’t love and respect yourself don't expect it from the world. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These people have an appreciation and an understanding of life that fills them with compassions, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen. Me and you are one of them, to the rest going through a struggle, its the month of love so i'm sending love and light. Just like the white rose in this photo, there is always light at the end of the tunnel, even in the darkest of days, God still sees and hears us. Amid everything happening around us, just like this rose, we still shine by the Grace of God. So, happy valentines day💕 #PositiveVibes #WhiteRose
Zari Hassan runs her former late billionaire husband Ivan Ssemwanga’s businesses in South Africa. Zari and Ssemwanga had already separated before his demise in 2017 having been blessed with three kids. She then went on to date Tanzanian Bongo Flavor crooner Diamond Platnumz with whom they sired two kids.
However, she later dumped the singer after he cheated on her with Tanzanian socialite and video vixen Hamisa Mobetto going on to sire a son in the process.